A Kickass Marriage is by no means ordinary. But neither are you.
You are a limitless being with untapped potential. Isn't it time to begin exploring and experiencing all that life and love have to offer?
"consciously you, in love."
People believe that Albert Einstein once said something along the lines of,
“Problems cannot be solved by the same level of consciousness that created them.”
That's because nothing changes if nothing changes, and we were born to create change and healing. That healing starts within ourselves. Facilitating this growth is my specialty, and it's my life's purpose to work towards raising the collective consciousness and changing the way we engage in relationships with ourselves and others.
If you work with me, I'm going to help you change the way you see yourself, your spouse, your marriage, and your entire life, by working with you to raise your level of consciousness. This shift into higher consciousness will pave the way for miraculous marital transformation.
You begin by taking the Energy Leadership Index Assessment™, which details how you're showing up in life across seven levels of energy- in both every day and stressful circumstances (because, for better or for worse, right?). This invites profound awareness into your life. Think of these results as being a map of your consciousness. You're going to learn things about yourself that you didn't even know you didn't know. You're going to see where you're tripping yourself up and getting in your own way, where you're totally rocking out, and where you can grow to expand your consciousness. In other words, the ELI assessment saves us valuable time by cutting through the stories and getting to the energy, and energy is what I coach. Yeah, it's like that.
If your spouse is also on board with coaching, get ready to get really intimate. We'll discuss your assessment results in a combined debrief session. By the time the debrief is completed, you're going to be wearing shades to protect your eyes from the bright light bulbs shining above your heads. You might even ask, "Does any one else hear those angels singing or nah?" You're going to have the missing puzzle pieces, and you're going to be ready to put them into place and study the bigger picture. Enough with the metaphors, but seriously- I'm passionate about the results my clients get from the assessment alone. You're finally going to understand your spouse, and your spouse is going to finally understand himself/herself. AND YOU. Together, you two are going to immediately begin to understand how your combined levels of consciousness are playing out in your marriage.
*Note- Although it is certainly beneficial when both partners sign-up and do the work together, I am a firm believer that one person's growth within the marriage can create a ripple effect that elevates the other. If your spouse isn't about this coaching life, shoot me an email through the contact form so we can connect. I want you to understand how beneficial coaching is even if it's just for you!
This debrief session creates a solid foundation for the work we will do moving forward. The following sessions will be used to mind that gap between where you are in your marriage and your level of consciousness and where you want to be.
Completing the ELI assessment and debrief with Jen was an incredibly eye-opening and empowering experience for both my former husband and myself. We both had hunches about what our patterns and interaction styles were like in our marriage, but the ELI with Jenn not only confirmed those hunches; they also opened our eyes to habits and patterns we had that we didn't even realize were on the table! Completing this experience with Jenn allowed us to pinpoint our strengths and weaknesses as a couple, and identify exactly where we needed to be working. Through the ELI debrief we uncovered areas where we weren't giving/receiving mutual respect, where codependency was showing up, where either of us was serving as an energetic vampire towards the other, where our energies/intentions were getting tangled up, etc. Although my marriage ultimately ended in divorce, I strongly feel that working with Jen was a key component in helping me to be totally clear on what wasn't working in my relationship, and empowering me to make a fully informed decision and feel peace about my divorce. I firmly believe that the ELI is an absolute MUST when getting started with Jen, because it has a way of just laying all the cards out on the table in such a clear, concise, and understandable way! -Yuki Graviet
The coaching process I utilize was produced by the founder of iPEC, Bruce D Schneider, and was created and developed from areas and fields such as consulting, psychotherapy, hypnotherapy, Reiki, mentoring, metaphysics, quantum mechanics, Neuro-Linguistic Programming, various learning theories, emotional intelligence, and leadership development. You can expect to work towards:
- gaining greater awareness of how your thoughts, beliefs, and emotions are affecting your leadership abilities in life and marriage
- clearing energetic blocks that are limiting your potential to create a truly authentic and fulfilling marriage
- increasing your overall amount of energy by identifying sources of catabolic (restrictive) energy and transforming your relationship with those sources to create more anabolic (expansive) energy.
- identifying your core values and how they're influencing your overall happiness
- examining and improving your levels of marital satisfaction in the following areas: boundaries, communication, mutual support, friendship, sexuality, honesty, intimacy, and trust.
- creating and following through with action steps to create and maintain your ideal marriage
- enjoying the freedom and sexiness that comes from having a KICK ASS MARRIAGE
By working with Jenn, I was able to do some serious, deep soul searching and really come into my own power and genuine inner strength. That shift flawlessly spilled into my (at the time) rocky marriage. The lines of communication between my husband and I are now open in ways I never thought possible, which is great being that we're expecting our first child! -Mel